How to Win an Argument With a Woman

Women think they are always right. Men think they are always right. Everyone thinks they are always right. Somebody has to be right, right? These are the issues that have taunted humanity since the beginning. I'm willing to bet that when the guy who invented the wheel asked his wife if it was a good idea, she said no.

If you're a woman you're probably mad at me already. I've made the assumption that the wheel was invented by a man. I can't prove it 100 percent. It’s possible that 30,000 years ago an industrious female cave dweller decided to carve a large stone into a round rolling object. Anything is possible I guess.

What I’ve just done there is make an educated assumption. I've assumed that it's very likely that a man invented the wheel. To a woman that might be a sexist assumption. A guy will use logic in situations where a woman is likely to disagree because she wants to have an opinion about something.

This is where men and women differ greatly. A guy cares about being right. A woman only cares about making sure a guy isn't right. This can make for some terrible arguments. Women don't argue with a sense of "rules" either. Anytime that you try to impose some order on a conversation she'll accuse you of trying to impose "your rules" on her.

You know things like logic and fairness. If you're calm she'll call you manipulative. If you're angry she'll accuse you of being abusive. Anything to avoid coming to the conclusion that she's incapable of discussing something in a fair and reasonable way.

To a man being emotional in an argument is something that is to be avoided. To a woman being emotional is what makes a good argument. An argument to a woman is about talking about her "feelings" about beliefs. It's never about questioning the belief's themselves. A guy wants to argue so that he can prove that he's right. A woman never assumes that she could be wrong.

A woman is about protecting "who she is". Even if that person is completely irrational. If she's being irrational and you point it out she'll tell you that you're "attacking her". "I have the right to my opinion". They won't even notice the contradiction in the last sentence.

The conflict between "rights", which is an absolute. And opinion which is something that is not proven and could be proven incorrect. So by stating that you have a "right" to your opinion means that you're inflexible about something that could potentially be wrong.

That is why when you ask a woman for her reasoning she doesn't have any. She never gathers the information to come to reasoning. She feels she doesn't need to gather the information. If she happens to have the information in her head she will use it. She'll never seek it out as the express purpose of validating her opinion.

This has been my experience with most people actually in one form or another. Usually though when a guy who thinks this way can't be proven right he'll just kick your ass. A guy without the ability to think logically is even worse than majority of woman who can't think logically. The reason is because the only emotion that person has and uses is anger. This makes them far more dangerous.

So how do you win an argument with a woman? You can't. I'm sure a few women smiled when they read that line. It's kind of funny to a point. I think overall it's a problem. The reason it's a problem is because I don't think it's a natural thing. I think it's something that is learned and passed down.

This whole article might seem pretty sexist. You'll probably leave thinking that I can't be talking about you. You might be right. I've personally met 1 or two women that can argue fairly. They usually have very high overall intelligence. An intelligence that is so pervasive that it dominates their emotions. Overall, it's very rare.

So my advice if you find yourself arguing a lot with a woman who refuses to compromise or argue fairly? Get away from her as quickly as possible. If it's your wife or girlfriend, you can expect years of gritting your teeth and seething anger. It never gets better either. Just endless baiting and irrational conversations for the rest of your life. Sorry ladies, this is just my opinion.